Toronto’s Globe and Mail reports that a father ruled too harshly when he grounded his daughter from a school camping trip after she broke his rules on the internet. Now, this isn’t a father who is punishing his daughter by tying her to a tree, she was JUST grounded! More than that, his rules against internet use which she willfully waltzed over were created for HER PROTECTION. She had created an account on online dating sites and published her pictures for all to see. If that were my daughter I would have deleted the accounts and banned her from not only any contact with friends but from all electronic media for at least a month. The child that is in a home is under the Biblical authority of the parents and we should be allowed to punish as we see fit short of physical abuse. I completely understand how the court should step in if there child is being beaten, that makes perfect sense to me. If there’s sexual abuse, fine. To overstep the authority of parents on a grounding? That’s blatant abuse of authority and if this ruling isn’t overturned the Canadian justice system will show itself to be a worthless institution that looks out for the interests of no one.
Now, what does this have to do with us? For that, I turn to the end of Albert Mohler’s commentary on it:
The logic of this ruling is not limited to Canada. In 1970, Hillary Rodham, then a young lawyer (and later Sen. Hillary Clinton), wrote a law review article, “Children Under the Law,” in which she argued that minors should be treated as “child citizens” who should, under at least some conditions, be able to challenge their parents in court over parental decisions.
This father may win his appeal — we must hope that he does — but the damage is already done. This 12-year-old girl has defied her father and been rewarded by a secular court. The judge and the court have now become complicit in the girl’s disobedience. This father has had his rights as father denied and his authority undermined. We can only imagine the costs of this judicial malpractice in the life of this girl and her family. Beyond this, the precedent is now set for further judicial mischief.
Is this the kind of worthless judicial system we have to look forward to in this country? With the continual pending hate crime and homosexual “inclusiveness” legislation, it’s only a matter of time.
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June 22, 2008 at 3:07 pm
I was so going to write this but I’ve been working on VBS stuff all weekend. We also talked about this in Sunday School this morning.
June 22, 2008 at 7:19 pm
I heard about it and couldn’t keep myself from posting on it. This kind of thing makes me sick.
June 23, 2008 at 8:32 am
First, parents only have a responsibility to provide a safe, clean, healthy environment for their children. This includes shelter, food, water, clothing and access to medical treatment as needed for health.
Um…the internet is none of the above. My child would immediately lose their computer, phone and any other electronic device they have. Existence would become very…VERY basic. If the Amish can live that way and live to very old ages, my child could make it to adulthood without any problem.
My daughter once got mad because I grounded her and took something away as punishment. She boldly stated “You can’t do that, it is MINE!”. I calmly advised her that “No, in fact you do not. I own YOU, therefore what is in your possession is mine”. End of argument.
Parents today don’t stand firm from a young age, then when the kids are older they suddenly EXPECT them to behave, follow rules and respect their authority as parents. It will NOT work that way, it never has, it never will. But I do NOT need a Socialist government telling me how to raise my child as is the case with the Fascist Hillary Clinton and her comrade Barack Hussein Obama II.
Bufford
June 23, 2008 at 11:18 am
After i heard this yesterday in Sunday School as well, it just made me a little sick to see that a child would actually go to an extreme to sue their own parents. I wonder what would have happened if the same thing happened to the judge who ruled against the parent- would the outcome be the same?
Probably, not - so why would you rule for somebody if you as a parent would not want that to happen you?
June 23, 2008 at 1:05 pm
Yeah Ian it really makes me sick too!
July 22, 2008 at 9:11 pm
I guess some people haven’t read enough about the rise of fascists in world war 2.